This blog is a tad late
today. I play the mandolin in our church
music group, and we were honored to sing and play at the funeral of one of our congregation
this morning.
Here in what is locally known as
SLO County – San Luis Obispo – we now have at least two on-line news and opinion
sites. The first one cannot be
trusted. The second one, SLOSense.com,
is just a few months old, if that. It
was begun by a friend of mine who had been living elsewhere for a time, and had
just moved back to SLO. He was appalled
by the change in the political discourse at the county level since he is back
from what it was when he left, so he started SLOSense.com as a place where
people can bring up issues in a safe spot.
When I was Chairman of the Board of Supervisors I did not allow
incivility from the public, either when there were public speakers on the
various subjects we would be voting on, or from members of the public making
cat-calls from the audience. When we were
still in our much over-crowded old Court House, I looked up to see a Deputy
Sheriff standing outside the windows watching what was going on. He was probably on break. At the same time, I was having trouble
getting someone to speak in a civil and respectful manner, so I just motioned
to the deputy to come in, which he did, then I motioned him to escort the
gentleman out. Which he did. Worked really well because people recognized
that my bite was as bad as my bark!
Recently we have a majority on
our Board who are quite conservative, and the one woman is so far to the right
she believes the United Nations is going to come in and take all of our
property rights because of something at the UN called Agenda 21. I always assured the public they could
discuss the subjects and express their opinions, but they must do it in civil
and respectful manner. There were no
such instructions from the current Board Chairman. One of my daughters attended a meeting and
was so distressed she nearly threw up. I
finally agreed to attend one of the meetings and express my displeasure. My instruction to the Board Chairman was to, “Pull
up your big-boy jeans and take control of these meetings!” Another thing that was
lacking at the meeting was any acknowledgement to the people who did get up to
speak. A simple, “Thank you for your
comments” is all that is called for.
Recently I posted something on
SLOSense about how foolish the City Council was to have initiated two measures,
A & B, to take away binding arbitration from the police and fire department
unions. The campaign was so vitriolic
against the first responders that a great many of the senior, experienced
officers resigned. A few immediately,
and more over-time as they attained the years to do so. One of our daughters was one of the senior
officers who had been assigned to the downtown area of SLO City to manage,
whenever possible, the problem with both the transient population as well as
the homeless mentally ill. She retired
some two years ago. A month or so ago
the SLO City Downtown Association requested two officers for the downtown area
to deal with the transient population and homeless mentally ill. As her mother, I, of course, thought this was
hilarious that it would take two officers to replace what my kid had been
doing. And also, the equipment, salaries
and benefits for two officers would be way over what one senior officer would
cost the city.
I posted this info on SLOSense
because I wanted to, and I made sure it was a civil posting because my friend
had stated that incivility would not be tolerated. Well, someone, probably using a pseudonym answered
my posting in a most insulting and belittling manner. He was warned about the posting, and then
insulted the host of the site.
What this man, at least his name
indicated he was male, doesn’t realize is that when you are in politics, for
sure, you delight in the fact that someone has freaked out, simply because then
you know you are right in what you said.
If someone says, “Oh, that was an interesting comment”, you can be sure what
you did or said was not particularly noteworthy. But if someone comes back and calls you “pathetic”
and a “hypocrite”, and uses such words as that you know you have really hit the
mark in what you said. In other words,
you know you are being particularly effective when the comments become
particularly virulent. A sort of sick
way of knowing how effective you are, but then that is politics.
The lack of civility in much of
our public discourse really bothers me in the sense that I know from experience
how destructive to the effective work of governing it can be. Some people are intimidated by just being in
the same room with a rude person, much less attending a public meeting rife
with incivility. It is a very effective
way of discouraging citizens to come to the meetings to speak their minds.
Let us all demand that our public
sites, either on the internet or at a government meeting, be conducted in a
respectful and civil manner.