Last
night on All In with Chris Hayes, who was home cuddling his brand new son, it
was Ari Melber who was All In, which is OK under the circumstances, considering
that I also like his style.
The
subject under discussion was the $1 million report, paid for by New Jersey tax
payers, that exonerated Chris Christie, and blamed Christie’s Deputy Chief of
Staff, Bridget Anne Kelly, for the mess because she was emotionally upset over
having been dumped by Bill Stapien, Christie’s campaign manager and longtime
friend. Nothing in the report mentioned
Bill Stapien’s emotional condition. I
have long called this bridge scandal the “Ongoing Saga of Trenton Place”, even
though the George Washington Bridge is nowhere near Trenton, NJ. This scandal is better than Peyton Place ever
was. I believe that there was some
reference to the Mayor of Hoboken, NJ, Dawn Zimmmer, as being somewhat
emotionally fragile. So far I haven’t
heard anything about the Mayor of Fort Lee, Mark Sokolich, being emotionally
unstable.
But
then take a look at the chief attorney, Randy Mastro, an older white male who
had to come up with something to try to exonerate Christie, who from a casual
observer across the nation, appears to be, in my opinion, not truthful at all
times. So who can Mastro pin this whole
thing on? Why the attractive, young
female Chief of Staff, and the intense young Dawn Zimmer. Does anyone around
here detect a bit of sexism? But a
Professor Butler, former federal prosecutor, on All In last night came right
out and called it sexism from the 1950’s.
Really? What would we expect from
Mastro? Someone who would write whatever
he was told to write if offered a million dollars to do so? Integrity?
(I hope my sarcasm is coming through here.)
But
if Mastro is a buddy of one of the leading lights of the current Republican
party, which is like night and day from the Republican Party of the 1950’s to
1979, when Ronald Reagan was elected, he is not above denigrating young women
(or old ones either) in order to try to get his buddy out of trouble. She may be guilty as hell of something, but
it will be because she made a conscious choice to act in a manner that causes
her to be guilty. Not because she was
emotionally upset over a broken date!
Which
brings me to the fact that in Texas over 60 women’s health clinics have closed
either because they provided abortions, or it was feared that they might. But along with the provision of abortions,
poor women also lost basic screenings for other reproductive health issues such
as pap smears, mammograms, screenings for STDs, and basic reproductive health
education, including birth control.
And
we have the case of the little girl who can no longer attend a “Christian” school
in Lynchburg, VA, whose great-grandparents have adopted her, because she has
short hair, wears jeans and t shirts, likes to collect hunting knives and
shoots a BB gun. This is a paragraph
from the AP article, “School says girl is too boyish”. “The principal sent
a letter home last month that her tomboy appearance does not follow the
school's religious affiliation and that it goes against a "biblical
lifestyle."” In my reading of the
Bible, I don’t believe that I ever read that jeans and a T-shirt were not
appropriate clothing for a girl!
Further, jeans and a shirt (no T-shirts when I was a girl) were my
favorite things to wear. I had to wear
skirts or dresses to school, and I hated them with a passion. I still do, and although I do have one for
summer and one for winter, never wear either.
I learned to shoot a .22 rifle with a great deal of accuracy, still
enjoy target practicing with my pellet rifle, have been married to the same man
for nearly 61 years now, have four daughters, two granddaughters, and four
great-grandchildren. What in the name of
all that’s holy does what a second grade girl wear or do have to do with
Christianity?
The
connection between these three points? It
is a total and complete denigration of women as fully functioning human beings,
capable of making rational decisions at the worst of times, just as men are
capable of doing. Too many men think women
can’t make decisions regarding their reproductive health because they are
emotionally unstable, so we big, rational men must make these decisions for
them. And, hey, what the heck, if we get
in trouble, we can blame it on the closest woman. Except we have to start training them at a
very early age to accept the blame!!
Fortunately
not all older white males, or young ones either, have this mindset. We are making progress. But when one is on the receiving end of this
way of thinking, after so many millennia it really gets old!! An old 1960’s slogan comes to mind. “Uppity women unite!!” If women all over the world could unite, not
to dominate or take over, but simply walk equally, side by side, with men in
all aspects of life, including wearing jeans and a T-shirt, think what we, all
of us, could accomplish.